“You†is one of the most common words in the English language. Although it typically refers to the person addressed (“How are you?â€), “you†is also used to make timeless statements about people in general (“You win some, you lose some.â€). Here, we demonstrate that this ubiquitous but understudied linguistic device, known as “generic-you,†has important implications for how people derive meaning from experience. Across six experiments, we found that generic-you is used to express norms in both ordinary and emotional contexts and that producing generic-you when reflecting on negative experiences allows people to “normalize†their experience by extending it beyond the self. In this way, a simple linguistic device serves a powerful meaning-making function.
Authors: Ariana Orvell, Ethan Kross, Susan A. Gelman